Finding Meaning in a Busy World
I first learned about the “meaning crisis” a year ago during a homily at my parish. Our priest referenced Harvard professor Arthur C. Brooks’ idea that many people today are not suffering from a lack of success, comfort, or information; rather, they are suffering from a lack of meaning. Modern life, with its constant acceleration in technology, productivity pressures, and social distractions, makes it harder and harder to pause and ask life’s deepest questions: Why am I here? What am I called to do? What makes life meaningful?
Brooks suggests that many people mistakenly pursue achievement, pleasure, or efficiency when what they truly seek is meaning. Meaning is becoming more difficult for people to find because modern technology and constant stimulation keep us focused on immediate tasks and distractions rather than deeper reflection. This creates what Brooks calls a “cycle of emptiness”. Distraction leads to less meaning, which leads to more distraction.
Meaning is not something you “solve for” once and for all. It is a lifelong journey and practice. In his latest book, The Meaning of Your Life (2026), Brooks provides guidance on enduring practices to cultivate meaning in your life:
Love ❤️
Deep relationships with family, friendships, and self-love are among the strongest sources of finding purpose. Love helps us transcend our self-centered concerns.
Calling 🕊️
Not merely a job or career, work is most meaningful when viewed as a vocation or work you are called to do, as it aligns with your true self. Self-reflection is not “What do I get from my work?” rather, “Whom do I serve in the work that I do”?
Transcendence 🙏
Brooks draws from philosophy and the world’s religious traditions, arguing that humans naturally seek something beyond themselves. Experiences in prayer, worship, beauty, awe, nature, and contemplation open us to deeper meaning.
Suffering 💔
Humans naturally seek to avoid suffering. But suffering is inevitable. Rather than fear suffering, we can embrace it when it comes and learn from it. Pain, loss, and hardship often become sources of growth, wisdom, compassion, and purpose.
Practical Advice
Here are six areas of your life that you can exercise to help you find deeper meaning:
Spend less time on digital distractions.
Get bored! Spend more time in reflection, pondering life’s questions.
Cultivate close loving relationships with family and friends.
Pursue service or a sense of calling, not just work.
Seek experiences of awe and wonder. Spend time in nature, art, and music. Invite transcendence.
Do not live to avoid suffering. It is a part of life. Reflect on suffering when it comes and learn how to manage it and grow from it.
May you continue to find deep meaning.
Be Well ❤️
Kelly
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